May 19, 2004

Before Sunset

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Nine years ago, I heard of a little movie about two people meeting on a train and spending one night in Vienna. Before Sunrise was the movie on everyone's mind that year. It was particularly poignant since that was the year I would make my first trip to Europe.

I can't remember why I didn't see it, but some of my friends spoke of it, excited because they were going to Europe too. The school choir made up of seventeen and eighteen year-olds was going to Istanbul, Rome, Florence, Venice, Salzburg, and Vienna. Back then, a girlfriend and I were heavily caught up with the idea of soulmates and that strange chemistry between two people who are perfectly in sync, liking the same things, speaking the same language, just knowing what the other felt. She had seen it and the movie struck a chord in her. Ethan Hawke and Julie Delpy played their parts wonderfully and although the movie could be criticized as one long conversation, the conversation let you see the two characters through and through, and the terrific bond they shared for some fourteen hours.

Nine years after that meeting, the two meet in Paris, where Jesse, Hawke's character, is on a book tour. Celine, played by Delpy, frequents the store where he's reading and knows about his book, which has quite a bit to do with that one night they spent in Vienna. How will they part this time? With a promise they won't keep again?

I finally watched the first part tonight and must say that their talk reminds me so much of how I was nine years ago. Young, hopeful, idealistic. Reviews of the sequel say the two characters have matured, their faces show the years that have passed. I can't wait to see it later this summer.

What I liked about Before Surise is how realistic Jesse and Celine are. Listen to how Jesse speaks and you know you've met an American like that before. And Celine's craziness isn't too far-fetched. The realism makes you feel for the characters. They're familiar in a good way; you can see them aging along with you.

I wish I could write more about the bittersweetness of chance meetings and not meeting the other person again. I used to daydream about such tragic situations. Now, I worry mostly about whether my luggage is too heavy and whether I've replied to enough emails for the day. Gosh, I've degenerated, haven't I? I've moved on and left the romantic behind. Maybe I should make a trip to Europe again. Renew a part of myself. Maybe next year, Lin Kiat and I will go.

Go see the trailer here.

Posted by Monoceros at May 19, 2004 12:39 AM
Comments

aww.. sounds lovely.... i haven't seen either yet!

europe is beeeuuuuttteeeeefffuuuullll.
but every place has its very own beauty. :C)

Posted by: tiggie at May 19, 2004 6:20 AM

i haven't seen "Before Sunrise" yet! I've been meaning to watch it someday. But haven't gotten down to it. May, let's watch it together when you're back! I'll try to find the VCD/DVD.

Ah, i want to go to Europe! I think it's the most romantic continent. What am i doing in Sg????? *sob*

Posted by: joan at May 19, 2004 10:00 AM

you haven't left the romantic behind. you're coming back to it...

Posted by: LK at May 19, 2004 10:30 AM

yup! let's watch it together joan!

Posted by: tiggie at May 19, 2004 12:29 PM

But now you are married, does'nt the romance change and take on new heights? (I mean, that was my response while reading your post...chance meetings of strangers -- ok lah, but surely, too much pain n question marks....)

Enjoy romance as it unfolds in its different forms, am sure married life brings with it more romance.

Me, the idealist! :)

Posted by: Queenie at May 20, 2004 3:47 PM

Hahah.. where was I when this movie was popular? Saw the trailer.. definitely looks like something I'll cry when watching... so romantic..

Hey Queenie, I agree with you! Vannie, there are so many uncertainties before marriage...
When you are married, the romance seems so much deeper. Of course you might lose that excitement that comes with not knowing what might happen.. the "what ifs".. oh, can't wait for it to be out! :)

Posted by: bunny at May 21, 2004 6:54 PM

Married life does have its perks and I'll enjoy more of them once LK and I live in the same country! I suppose I meant that such situations - chance meetings, talk and talk about lofty ideas and notions (see the movie for this) - used to appeal to my younger self, but now, I don't romanticize such things. I've become less idealistic in that sense and more a practical person than a romantic one. I used to be 90% romantic, and I think that's dangerous. I'm a little more balanced now, i'd like to believe!

Posted by: Van Heng at May 23, 2004 4:18 AM